Ever have an awkward handshake with someone, because one person didn’t expect it to occur or because of some other confusion? Well, it starts out awkward, but by the time you finally manage to clasp hands, all is forgotten. An awkward high five will plop its nasty self right between the two and people and remain well after the gesture was completed or abandoned.

And one could go on and on about the symbolism behind a handshake — the extension displays a desire to connect, the open hand shows you’re unarmed, placing your hand in another’s is a bow-like sign of submission or trust, etc. It just makes sense.

Let’s just go with the fist bump.

#7 (Laurel) – That is actually almost what I do with a woman. However, kissing the hand isn’t as socially acceptable in our American culture, as it can be interpreted as inappropriate and/or demeaning depending on the situation.

In business-like situations, I often find a woman will let you know that a regular “proper” handshake is appropriate. Otherwise, I can tell you how I shake a woman’s hand (I meant to put this in the article) – regardless of how it’s offered, I turn it at a slight angle; 45 degrees, like you said. I don’t really shake it as much; if I do, it’s very light. I opt not for the kiss for the reasons already stated.

I find women, particularly ‘powerful’ women, have the worst handshakes. There’s one woman who I see out now and again and I *dread* it when she sticks her hand out. At least now I know to brace myself for it, but still.

I hate when some goes for the “pound” or whatever it’s called and trys to turn my handshake into this weird thing where my fingers are being pulled towards the person and then some strange half hug is then applied.

It’s all a bit much.

Simple handshake would have sufficed.

I don’t understand the guys that feel they have to crush your hand. Perhaps they have something to prove. A good, firm handshake is all that is appropriate. No more, no less.