He’s not saying she’s a bad person, for chrissake. He’s saying she’s not his cup of tea. For the record, given his reaction to a photo she probably thought was cute, he ain’t hers either. But, to prove they are open and broad-minded, they should what? Date each other?

This is rather like the black guys (yes, I’m going there) who hit on you with the actual line that you’d date them if you aren’t prejudiced. When you laughed in their face, they’ll grin and say it was worth a shot and we’d move on no harm, no foul, other than the fact that these were not the men of color that I did date. I was left thinking what kind of stupid white chicks out there is that line working on?

Yet, they must exist because this line is still around 30 years after the first time I heard it. This amazes me. What am I going to jump into bed with you to prove I’m not a bigot? I really don’t think so. Kriskaten, Sue, Dumb Panda, would you? If so, Wash and Lark and Washington Park seem to be among their favorite hang-outs.

For all we know, this chick and Kevin might be great friends if they met under a different venue but that’s not what happened. I don’t know how this dating service works but I’m not reading any report of her contacting him either.

So I’m left wondering why other people care so much that two people who have utterly no desire to hook up, aren’t? WTF!!!

J. Eric, you are a lucky man. Me, I meet people face to face or I can’t be bothered. It’s not like men are hard to come by. But even face to face, J. Eric, you are lucky and so is your wife.

IMHO, you can do a full body sexy pose without looking like… um… a “sexy cowgirl” if you know what I mean. I’ve seen sexy people in jeans & t-shirts. It’s the way you carry yourself & photo. That’s it.

Back in my online dating days I routinely passed by guys who had topless cheese shots of themselves posted. If we haven’t even had coffee, I do not want to see your nipples.